How to manage defiance and oppositional defiant disorder

How to manage defiance and oppositional defiant disorder

Typical traits of children with oppositional defiant disorder.

They act younger than they are. Don’t expect them to mature quickly.
They live in the here and now, and can’t think about the past or future.  They don’t see how their actions result in a series of consequences.  They can learn sometimes, but only if it is pointed out immediately after an incident.
They don’t notice their effect on others.  Sometimes you ask others how they feel immediately after an incident, or you gently report how it makes you feel.
Their brain is easily overloaded, and they have a hard time with changes.  And yet, you can use this overloading problem to your advantage.
They cannot follow your reasoning, so don’t try.
Defiance may be a strength in their future. With mature skills, they’ll better resist negative things they’ll face in life.

Unrelenting defiance is a true disability that negatively affects a child’s life and future.  I’ve seen highly intelligent defiant or ODD diagnosed children experience academic failure or enough suspensions or expulsion to hold them back a grade.  This is a can’t-win-for-losing path that really sucks, doesn’t it?

The best vitamins for your child’s brain

The best vitamins for your child’s brain

The vitamins listed here are absolutely essential for your child’s brain, and it’s highly likely your child doesn’t have enough.  People with psychiatric disorders commonly have physical problems that are symptoms of vitamin deficiency.  Take digestive problems, for example–low levels of B vitamins cause digestive disorders, especially B12. “One of the most common deficiencies seen …

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What hallucinations are like, from those who know

What hallucinations are like, from those who know

If you care for a child experiencing hallucinations but don’t know what it’s like, these first-hand accounts may help you better understand and support your child. This writer is taking medications, which help, but do not fully eliminate the hallucinations. “The reason my thoughts inaccurately capture existence is because my understanding of existence is different …

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